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PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE
 The
known psychologist Charles Rogers who has lived a life long and rich with events,
told: « In the childhood I was the painful child, and the father has
somehow told, that I, probably, I shall die young. In a sense it was mistaken:
in fact to me already seventy five. But in any sense I am ready to recognize its
correctness. I feel young and I hope never to become the old man ».
You for certain had to meet such people who have managed till an
old age to keep youthful energy, freshness of perception of a life. But happens, as
the youngish person is weighed upon a cargo of the lived years. Therefore
the chronological age, appears, for the person at all so is important,
as age of soul (psychological age).
To define age of soul simply enough if you do not feel in yourselves the answer you can glance in psychological tests for this theme and then all becomes clear.
OUR COMPLEXES
Many, very much many people are excited with a question " How to get rid of complexes ".
There is a uncountable number of advice and recommendations on this question.
Complexes exists much enough and on everyone it is possible to
paint the program of disposal. However any of these programs submits
strictly to one rule without which any advice will be useless. This
rule, we now also shall consider. But take advantage of it those
who are ready to go independently against the complexes can only. First
of all will be tried on with the complex. Complexes are at each of
us. Is not present on a planet the uniform person at whom since a birth would
not appear or complexes have not taken root. All secret consists
that nobody another's complexes interest. Everyone is concentrated to the .
To find complexes in others not always it is possible at once, and here we always
remember the and we think over.
LIFE WITH PARENTS
If the son results the young wife mother all over again before wedding
some times with the person seryoznostju will look narrowly to it in the house, and then and after
wedding will concern cautiously to young nevestke. As the
true mistress in the house the mother-in-law feels obliged to learn it as it
is necessary to conduct a facilities in its house as it is necessary to address with its subjects of a life,
as well as than, to wash utensils, a floor, technics as well as that it is necessary to prepare, it
addresses with it as with absolutely small child, in fact it does not know,
that that already is able and knows. It tries to help to look after to it the
son, reminds, that it loves more, that it prefers in meal,
when and as it is necessary to talk to it. The mother-in-law tries for the good of,
approaches to all to it with the big responsibility, it considers as the parent duty
to train nevestku for which it in turn - katorga, seems to it,
that it belittle, do not give drops of freedom, do not allow to live, as it
would like.
THE BEST GIRLFRIEND
For the woman the close girlfriend as is important, as well as the partner in life, in fact the best girlfriend will go with you on a life up to the end so it should approach as much as possible to you on thinking. The
wife to be complex,
and it is not less complex to be the present Best girlfriend. And therefore
to choose it follows with special carefulness. Opened there is a question, –
« What should be the Best girlfriend? ». And to answer the given question we
shall try in this clause.
THE PARENT OR THE FRIEND?
All we sooner or later become daddies and mums, but here parents
there is not everyone. At many children appear approximately in 19-25 years, and
in fact at this age so memoirs of the childhood are fresh, how parents
brought up, looked after, cared, as we practically without them were
helpless. And on the basis of these memoirs they try to give the children
the same that received in due time from the parents. They practically
completely devote themselves to parental duties, they: watch
that their child has not stumbled, that the child not poperhnulsja with a supper that
in time went to bed that was able to respect and appreciate seniors that was
able to intercede for itself and relatives. Such daddies and mums become true parents.
HOW YOU CONCERN TO CRITICISM?
« To press criticism on a root », means itself desperate attempts
to find the justification to those lacks of the actions or words for which
you criticize. This kind of reaction is very widespread presently, it
would be seldom possible to meet that to whom the critic is pleasant, is more often it causes aggression.
The person tries to prove nepravotu the critic, it tries to
overpersuade it and in every possible way "gets out" of the developed situation, and as
a rule criticizing and that whom criticize, stop attitudes under the
initiative of the last. If, you prefer to listen patiently to criticism, but
to not accept it vseryoz it can result besides to result,
as in the first case, but later the certain period of time. You awake
hmuritsja, to take offence on criticizing, on the quiet, but everything, awake,
are confident the correctness. It can delay some the termination
of your dialogue with the critic, but problems on which there is a
question of criticism, everything, remains, and is possible, will accrue.
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